This year I’m blogging my book De-Stress Your Writing Life. You can read it for free on Creativity’s Workshop every Friday.
Avoiding Self-Defeating Thoughts
Here are some more truisms about the writing life:
- Writers are usually their own harshest critics.
- Doing something courageous means facing a certain level of fear.
Because of these two things, writers can often become timid, frustrated and even overwhelmed by the stresses involved in creating their work and sending it out into the world.
Common thoughts among these writers are:
- I don’t have anything worth writing about.
- I’m never going to amount to anything.
- What if I can’t find an agent? Or a publisher? What if no one wants to read what I’ve written?
- What if people ridicule me?
These destructive thoughts roam through the writer’s mind, quashing any motivation and remaining unanswered by positive rebuttals.
A necessary step in creating a successful writing mindset is to capture these thoughts and deal with them.
Capturing Negative Thoughts
Negative thoughts can pass so quickly through our minds that we may not recognized they’ve even been there. Writing about our concerns and worries often coaxes those thoughts back to the surface so we can start to understand why we’re feeling stressed or negative.
Freewriting is a wonderful tool at the Independent Writer’s disposal. It involves setting yourself a specific period of time and writing without stopping until the time has elapsed. This method encourages your mind to continue putting out words, even if you consciously feel you have nothing more to say.
Writing a stream of consciousness (recording the thoughts as they pass through your mind) provides you with an opportunity to see what your mind is doing. You may see how one thought leads to another – how the simplest of negative comments can grow within your mind until you feel unworthy or unable to write.
Recording these thoughts then allows you to work through each negative point.
Refuting Negative Thoughts
In the next chapter we will cover some specific negative thoughts you may have about your writing and the methods you can use to refute them. In the meantime, start taking note of your common thinking patterns and look for logical responses that will help you bring an end to the chain of thoughts that are causing you stress in your writing life.
Add your comment below. What self-defeating thoughts have you faced as a writer?
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