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A Creative View of Others

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Recently, Charlotte introduced me to a wonderful article about Roger Ebert. You can read the article by clicking here. It is an amazing and inspiring story worth reading.

For those of you who do not have the time to read the article, the basics of the story are as follows: Roger Ebert is a well known American film critic and screenwriter. About four years ago he had most of his lower jaw removed due to cancer. Complications followed eventually leaving him unable to eat, drink or speak. Through all this he remains a prolific writer with a positive outlook on life.

Since then I’ve been thinking about how Creativity plays a part in our viewpoint of others. How often do we see someone with an awkward gait, a disfigured face or a speech impediment and automatically assume lack of intelligence? When someone tells us that the person we are about to meet has special needs of some sort, do we find ourselves shrinking back inside? Becoming nervous? Or, how often do we see a foreigner struggling with our language and mentally put them in a class below ourselves?

While these are common reactions, with a little Imagination we can work to change them.

The Power of Imagination

In part, Imagination allows you to envision things that have never happened – or at least have never happened to you. It allows you to ‘put yourself in someone else’s shoes’ and feel the pinches, the blisters, the unique challenges and the perks of being that person. Of course, our Imaginations are only able to tell us so much. We don’t want them to run away and come up with fanciful ideas that are far from the truth. However, we can use our Imagination as a tool to help us empathize and relate to others.

What powers your Imagination? Creativity of course.

Creativity is the force behind Imagination. She/he provides the ability to make mental jumps between what you have actually experienced and what you need to feel in order to empathize or understand that person.

Lets take the example above of speaking to a foreigner who struggles with your language. Perhaps you have experienced the difficulty of learning another language, and watched people speak very slowly and simply (like they are talking to a three-year-old) just so you can understand.  Take those experiences, use your Imagination and bridge the gap between yourself and the person struggling with your language.

Look into their eyes and search to find the inner person. Allow your Imagination to play with questions: ‘Who are you?’ ‘Where have you been?’ ‘What have you seen?’ ‘What can you teach me?’ Imagine how the person would speak their own language – their eyes lighting up, their words coming thick and fast, their meaning flowing like clear water. That’s the person they really are. And even if you never get the opportunity to see it in reality, you’ve glimpsed it in your head.

With Imagination Comes Understanding

What about your family and friends? Can a Creative Viewpoint of them make a difference? Yes!

You see, none of us think exactly the same. We have different personality types, different childhood experiences that make us who we are, different opinions on things. Each of us are unique. So, we cannot assume someone sees situations exactly the same as we do. Creativity and Imagination can help us envision other people’s ways of looking at things.

For example, what if one of your family members suffers from depression? While this can be very difficult for the person with depression to cope with, it can also be difficult for a person without depression to understand. Perhaps you’re thinking: Why can’t you just buck up? Thinks aren’t that bad. We all have bad days but you can’t let them get you down. You have to pull yourself together and try harder.

While those thoughts may seem reasonable from the standpoint of a person without depression, things are by no means that simple on the other side. Try imaginining the following.

What if it was always raining in your head? What if everything you saw was just shades of blue and grey? What if every step you took every day was through a thick, oppressive mist and you couldn’t see the hand in front of your face? What if every thought that ran through your head spat on you as it passed?

Everyone has a different description of their depression, nuances that make it personal. But the basics are the same. You can’t just ‘snap out of it.’ It’s a daily struggle. And often, when you think you’re on the mend, that’s when it will hit you in the small of the back and knock you down again.

Although it may be very difficult for you to understand if you have never experienced depression yourself, talking to your friend or family member, listening to what they are saying and creating an equivalent picture in your mind can help you increase your empathy.

No matter whether the person we are learning about is someone with special needs, a foreigner, a friend, a child, an elderly person, a family member, we should create impressions of people with our heart and our hope, rather than our eye which only sees the surface.

Have you experienced a similar Creative Viewpoint recently?

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Author: Jessica

A writer who refuses to pin herself down to one genre. I'm passionate about helping other writers find their Creativity and enjoy a prolific writing life. You can always contact me by writing to Jessica at creativitysworkshop dot com, or follow me on Twitter @jessbaverstock

7 thoughts on “A Creative View of Others

  1. Wow, the Ebert post inspired another great post. This is awesome, Jessica, and gives me lots to think about. I love the way you apply creativity and the notion of using the imagination to real life. I think I tend to be quick to judge others and if I can just take a deep breath and use my imagination to empathize, we’ll all be better off.

    • I’m finding the more I think about how we use Creativity in real life the more opportunities I discover!

      I need to work on taking a deep breath and using my imagination to empathize too. 😉 As with anything, the more we practice, the better we’ll get. 🙂

  2. Have you experienced a similar Creative Viewpoint recently? Yes.

    I’ve recently been researching Deaf Culture, particularly as it relates to those who use American Sign Language. I’ve researched it quite a bit in the past as well, but as recent life changes have necessitated my helping others to understand it as well, I decided to give myself a refresher (naturally, learning new things as well). As I did so, I remembered a conversation with a friend who was quite annoyed with one aspect of Deaf Culture. Though she knew little of the subject, she had been told that deaf people do not feel themselves to be disabled, and that many, if given the opportunity to hear, would choose to remain deaf. This bothered her greatly. And, though I struggled to help her understand, I couldn’t sway her one iota…and found some lingering questions in my own mind.

    Why do many deaf people resent being called disabled, and vehemently deny being disabled, and yet accept a government issued disability check? Why do some of the same individuals whom I’ve talked to, who do not want to ever become hearing, also tell me of specific sounds they wish they could hear?

    I thought about this long and hard, and my Creativity came to the rescue. She pointed out to me that it wasn’t so terribly different from my ADD. Yes, naturally, there are many, many difference between ADD and deafness – but, aren’t there similarities too?

    A deaf person often defines themself by their deafness. It is WHO THEY ARE. It is their cultural and personal identity. It influences the way they think and communicate, and the way they relate to the world. There are both benefits and drawbacks to being deaf. But, these individuals (those who would prefer to remain deaf) judge that the benefits, including their rich cultural heritage and phenomenal language, outweigh the drawbacks. They resent that hearing people feel superior, and believe that deaf would rather be like them. They would love it if hearing people would recognize that the ONLY thing they can’t do is hear, and value their strengths just like any other human being – and while they were at it, hire them for those strengths. Since the hearing world often refuses to do this, putting artificial limits on the deaf and their income, they feel fully justified in accepting a check to partially make up for these limitations.

    I have ADD. I’m not sorry I have it. In fact, I love it. It makes me who I am. It has such a profound effect on my personality that I’m nearly certain that if it were taken away, I wouldn’t be me anymore. It also has many, many, many drawbacks – some of them are very painful. Still – if someone were to tell me that they could magically take my ADD away (not just the drawbacks, but the whole thing) . . . I’d say ‘no thanks.’ and the world would scratch its head. I resent that many people without ADD feel that I would be much better off if I were just like them. I greatly wish that the world at large would value intelligence, creativity and talent above punctuality and organization, and gainfully employ me accordingly. But it won’t. Although I’d rather stay as I am, if the government offered to give me a “disability” check to partially compensate me for the ways in which living in a non-ADD world my limited income, I’d take it (as long as I didn’t have to give up my creative endeavors to accept it).

    So . . . I guess I understand, at least to a limited degree.

  3. i see beyond the surface
    because that’s how i want others to see me too
    who knows what they will be missing
    by putting labels without really checking 🙂

    i like this one — gonna apply creativity
    in seeing others differently
    of course in a positive way 🙂

    • It’s interesting to note how often we apply labels without really checking. We just do it automatically. I suppose the trick is not the make the labels permanent, but always be ready to see others differently…of course in a positive way. 😉

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